25 Date Night Conversation Starters For Couples

Date Night Conversation Starters For Couples

Whether you’ve been together for ten years or three months, all couples can benefit from deep and enriching conversations. From the fun and trivial, to the deep and life-changing – any conversation that brings you closer to your partner is a worthwhile one. The more you talk to each other, the closer you become – which is crucial to building a fulfilling, happy and healthy relationship.

Try one of these 25 date night conversation starters next time you plan time with your partner. They’re bound to bring you closer together!

Fun & Cheeky

If you could only eat one meal for the rest of your life… what would it be?

What’s something you were weirdly into for a very long period of time?

What types of activities did you enjoy as a kid? Do you still do them now?

What’s your favourite inanimate object?

If you had to be like one TV show character, who would it be?


What is your love language?

What is your favourite thing I do in bed?

How did you know you were in love with me?

When do you feel closest to me?

When was the first time you ever said I love you?


What are you most grateful for? 

If you had one million dollars to give to charity, what causes or organizations would you support? 

In what circumstances, if any, is it okay to lie? 

What’s your most precious memory of me?

What does a perfect marriage look like to you?

Past, Present & Future

What’s one thing from your past that you wish you could change?

What’s something you’d love to get better at in the future?

When you think of us five, ten, and twenty years from now… what do you see?

What is the greatest accomplishment of your life thus far? 

Describe your perfect day. 

Culture & Politics

Tell me about a book you read recently that you found interesting.

Have you read an article recently that changed your mind on anything?

What’s something that most people you know like, but you don’t? 

What movie have you seen the most times? 

If you had to listen to one genre of music for the rest of your life, what would it be?

There you have it! Try out one of these 25 conversation starters on your next date night, and discover the difference it makes to your relationship and connection together.

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